Any husbands shut down emotionally after finding out wife's pregnant?

So great to know thank you for that@shakenama

Yes he very much expressed that he wanted to have kids. On mess from doctor for nausea.. not doing a whole lot yes have tried ginger several times yes first baby@trackboy

@Brassm0nk3y well get lot of ginger root. maybe husband is now dealing with the reality he is going to have a crying baby around the house and wont be able to go off on trips with you now that there is going to be a baby to deal with. or worried your going to throw up while talking with him. doctor gives you a list of foods to eat and foods to avoid? supposedly vomiting is to prevent any toxic things in certain foods from affecting the early development of the baby. I hate vomiting. its awefull. is worst when I am busting for a piss and my abs are squeezing hard on my painfully full bladder.

He did. He kept asking when we were going to try. Shortly after that we found out we were pregnant@greenmountaingal

@Brassm0nk3y I've heard of this happening before. The reality comes as a shock to a man who hasn't really considered all the implications. Usually, the husband adjusts to the situation in a few more months.

This has got to be hard on you. (I assume you've checked out whether he is having an affair or going through some other personal secret situation, like gambling debts or drug addiction). I'd suggest you give him a little time, but if this continues after the child is born, I'd draw the line and insist on counseling. You need him to live up to his dreams of being a dad, and part of that is giving you emotional support.

Thanks very helpful@greenmountaingal

He's my husband. He kept saying he wanted to have children/ then it happened then things changed @sighmeupforthat

He wanted kids more than I did. When we found out he was so excited. Now after a couple months things have changed @starrybunny