Has anyone else had this problem...

My daughter is nearly three now and my other daughter is 1 soon but I've notice a strange but worrying since in my three year old which I wouldn't of though would happen.
I left my bf because he had no intention of taking care of his kids or me for that matter and Freya the oldest tried so hard to get his attention so hard shed shout at me and other thing and leaving him though slowly but surely she'd stop that but she is getting worse....
I thought that the baby would learn and follow her big sis, she did for a little while but now Freya is copying her little sister more and more everyday. I know at her age she will test and push boundaries but if she does something wrong and doesn't listen I tell her she is wrong and she has timeout but sometimes she screams so loud the neighbors might be thinking I'm hitting her but I don't.

Anyone else had this that the older one starts going backwards.....

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SW-User

She's 3.
She wants attention so she's doing what the 1 year old does for the attention.

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MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@SW-User thank you so much. That's what I wanted to know if it's something kids do and grow out of it or if it was something more.

SW-User

@MiraRoss She sounds pretty smart 😌

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@SW-User she is smart for her age she learns fast but so is my other daughter she's so independent it's unreal that's why I put this on her as the younger one seems more independent but that may change as she gets older

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

if it happened to me i'd blame her and be like hey you're the one that chose to have kids with someone who was hellbent on never having em in the first place.

except now that my medicaid card is coming I Really should talk to a doctor about getting it fixed myself and just not telling anyone its done because too many of these women want them so badly.

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@BetweenKittensandRiots I never knew having kids with him would change him so much he was an amazing guy

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

@MiraRoss It's a massive lifechanging thing and such a major event I wonder why we sleep walk through it as a society. Having children is a major responsibility and unlike other responsibiltiies there's really no undo button, once you cross that threshold it's nearly irreversible and we just live our lives on autipilot through it.

I still watch Anime, read books, game, etc and I think about how I wouldn't have time to maintain Hobbies anymore if I had kids.

Also about how I have ambitions to start my own company

but since Abraxus Industries is still in the Larval stages I'd be basically impositioned into seeking a regular 9-5 to feed the kids because while this does bring in money it's not enough- not yet anyways.
The way employment works at my stage either getting regular hours would be nigh impossible. Sure it'd be full time but they'd just schedule me in every gap other employees didn't fill up.

so my schedule would be all over meaning I couldn't do much but sleep the moment I got home. I'd get maybe ONE day off a week and have to spend half of it passed out.

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@BetweenKittensandRiots yes it is a big change I know it is I don't work anymore and they have my time whenever they speak it. Of I could go back I would do same thing. I don't regret my decision at all

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

She probably needs a hug and some undivided attention.

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@MiraRoss She's barely 3 years old. Do you even know ANYTHING about child development, emotional well-being, or parenting?

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@MarkPaul yes I do actually. There is giving and there is giving too much

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