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It's been two weeks now....

It's been two week since I came to my mums and moved out with my boyfriend and he still saying itsmymumsdoing that I'm her puppit.
I told him last Monday he could have his daughter over the weekend but because I told him I wasn't coming he decided he didn't want to come and I told our daughter that he was coming to get her so you can imagine so instead of having her friday and bringing her back Sunday he had her Saturday to Sunday.
He brought her back at 12 so I could do her some dinner and then she could have a nap but because he prolonged her coming in she got so worked up she wouldn't eat her dinner so I thought a sleep would work for her to relax a bit but I was wrong she cried herself to sleep it was horrible and yo top that of when she finally went sleep she was crying in her sleep and whimpering.
I had a hat with him that I didn't want this happening that it's not gonna work this is the second time it's happened I can't put her threw this if he cared this much about her when we lived in the same house we couldn't be in all this mess.

I told him it will be best if he didn't see her he didn't show any of us interest when we lived in same house for nearly three years he showed little interest and when second was born he was the same very little interest. I tried for him to make it work but I can't put the kids threw this.

Did I do the right thing...?
He said we should see a family solicitor for a professional opinion that I can't stop him seeing kids and that he would take me to court..... I don't need this stress and either do my kids
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
If the adults can work arrangements out between them maturely it is always a 1000% better for the children. If the adults continually fight, the children lose.

It is not time for either of you to be trying to apportion the blame or take the high moral ground.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@Zeusdelight we tried it and he was always wanting me to come out with them and if I said no he'd be in a mood don't want our daughter having to deal with him and I don't want her crying herself to sleep every night he brings her home or doesn't want to come
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
@MiraRoss I don't blame you.

Any chance of having someone look after the daughter while you both go to the counselling.

At the moment he is acting like a hurt person who thinks he is unjustly hurt when he is not.

It means you giving a lot, but any chance he may be open to sorting daughter time and adult communication through counselling?

I know it is asking a lot of you, but in the long term it will be for the benefit of you all.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@Zeusdelight from what he's told me and his actions all he's trying to do it get me back.hes also blocked my number so can't contact him
He sounds like a deadbeat don't let his threats upset you he is just trying to manipulate you into getting back with him if you do not want to be with him then stick to your guns don't give in and go back to him
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@ExperienceDLT that's what I thought I've told him many time it's notgonnaworkhe don't get it
496sbc · 36-40, M
sounds like he is not a very understanding bf.
496sbc · 36-40, M
well hun when ur single like me and a guy gets a girl and treats her rotten like he did to u yes thats the minimum he should get@MiraRoss
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@496sbc yea I suppose
496sbc · 36-40, M
@MiraRoss yeah. i been looking a long time. and not a bite. but thats my luck 😢
tomtracy438 · 41-45, M
u def did the right thing

 
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