It's so over...

Went to get some water for my daughters bath and baby cried and my boyfriend said her bath will have to wait as he didn't know what was wrong with baby. She'd only just started crying and he hadn't even picked her up, so I had to leave Bath to sort baby out.
What kind of man don't care like this. I've give him to many chances it's so over. My daughters deserve better

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SW-User

What you have said isn’t enough of a valid reason to want to end your relationship!

There’s gonna be a lot of bumpy roads on your journey as parents

Stick together and work it through together.

Unless the guy physically harms you or your child or emotionally crosses the line in a harmful way mentally work with him.

It’s about growing together as a team as healthy and as best you can and if some days are shit then try again and move on without resentment

Don’t forget that you both loved each other enough once to make a baby.

Two way street. Teamwork!

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MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@SW-User I don't want you to say anything lol
You can say what you want.
But your advice to stay with a man who doesn't care about his own kids is a tad bit silly.
I know it's up to me lol

SW-User

You’re welcome 😌@MiraRoss

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@SW-User lol

MushroomFaerie

Man I would slap the shit out of him. I'm sorry for you and your kids that hes such a selfish man child

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@MushroomFaerie thank you. I'll just be glad when I can get out

MushroomFaerie

@MiraRoss 🤗

SW-User

Some people just suck at certain stages of child raising.

Talk to him about it.

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@SW-User I have same happened with other daughter. He is just lazy

Jasondf · M

Are they his biological children?

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@Jasondf yes, he's the only man I've been with. Been together 7 years

Jasondf · M

And he wouldn’t help... @MiraRoss

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@Jasondf he helps when it consern him, or butt's in when I'm doing something, with his first did everything for over a year of her life and she's 2

butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F

A lot of people (not just men) have a really difficult time adjusting to a new baby in the house, so don't feel that either of you did the wrong thing - you just thought differently. The primary concern is their welfare of children so you put your own feeling aside to care for them if you can.

SW-User

They do. 😢

butterflymind1 · F

some men are afraid they'll break babies

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@butterflymind1 she only needed her nappy doing. He could of bathed Freya but he ran off in other room

REMsleep · 41-45, F

Some men get very lazy and complacent, some don't feel comfortable handling girl children, some think that maybe you would rather do it anyway. Before leaving him ask yourself does his good in your life outweigh the bad? Being a single mom is no joke but neither is having a burdensome man.
Some men have honestly never witnessed an honest to goodness father in action and have no idea what being a decent one looks like.
You gotta do what's best for you and kiddos but I wonder what he would have done if you'd stated calmly that you needed him to help you?

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@REMsleep he has a great mum and dad. If he didn't feel comfortable he should just say.
There is loads of bad thing about him, it out does the good. If I have to do everything I may as well do it alone

SW-User

Men have pnd too

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