Yeah. That's right. Please tell me how I am the EVIL STEP MOTHER, when you have NEVER had to help raise someone else's kids.

My daughter sent this to me the other day....apparently I needed to hear it at that time. I want to share it with you now....

I have ,,I only have 4 ,but I have raise 10
I have a special needs "step"grandson
He is not the problem ,,his Mom who abandoned him to be with a man is
She chose a man over her kids ,,but now thinks my daughter
does not have the right to "tell her kids what to do "
She inherited 3 of them ,,dumped on them ,at the time 2 with special needs
my daughter has the kids 90% of the time ,the Dad has to work and sleep
(so does my kid ,,but her feelings and health don't count )
Cops and HRS constantly at the door
He ex does not make her pay a dime in child support ,
see's she gets the kids every holiday and the summer
and the WITCH is still not happy ,,,
She pushed for a set time to call the kids EVERYDAY ,regardless of any other family activity it interferes with ,she got her set time ,,now she don't like it
Posts on Face Book how abused her kids are (One is now in Gifted ,and made the honors last year )He never achieved anything except built in baby sitter with her
NOW she is having to spend lots of money on attorney fees ,,
Now she is being investigated as to the living conditions the kids have when they are with her ,,why she has not fostered good parenting between the ex and the kids ,,,Why she would abandon her kids with a man she says "Needs parenting classed and supervised visitation IF she won them back ,,
Now she has hung herself with her MALICIOUS behavior ,,, now she wants to drop it all ,,,and just keep the one that is now 18 and gets a check
HELL NO ,,,she wanted a war ,,now she has one
Her new man has 3 kids ,,now the state wants to see how they are treated and their living conditions and where she spends the money for the 18 yr old

her messaged telling the kids not to mind my daughter ,all her lies
Now she gets to explain it all to a judge ,,I can't wait
She messed with the wrong family
We foster other peoples kids ,see they get educations,and all of them are successful and NONE of my Girls EVER abandoned their kids
It has been hell on all of us ,,,but now her day is coming

But the sad part is ,,no one has told these kids how Mom is
But now the oldest is old enough to see for himself
He has to me made to talk to Mommy ,,He wants Nothing to do with her
He now see's for himself ,which parents was the monster
and needs to be supervised

You just talked about how you hate your boyfriend’s son.. you brought that title on yourself

I think stepmothers are automatically thought of in negative ways and some of these kids can be evil in trying to cause trouble for them. When they don't do that I hope the women count their blessings.

You are doing a very hard job and the little shit needs to be told show respect



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I am a stepdad to two boys. There have been ups and downs but I love them more than I could possibly express.

It sounds like you’re trying to roll a boulder uphill, especially if he’s not willing to lay down the law with his own son. That’s on him and not you. He needs to back you up if he expects you to be his peer in running your household.

I'm so sorry you are going through this. 😞

<3 <3

Every stepmother is evil, it's just unavoidable. Nothing personal.