There's a fine line....no a very thick line...between being cute and a bit chubby to being really out of shape and fat. Not to be the bearer of bad news but you're about 12 miles on the wrong side of that line.
@anythingoes477 Thanks for your input. I know I'm fat. But whether I'm cute or not is subjective and not for you to tell me. I like how I am, so does my fiancée.
@Emele You most likely are super cute. I was speaking strictly in terms of how I see it----from a physical standpoint. If you like yourself and your fiance likes you as you are--then I'm super happy for you both. BTW...nice nips.
@anythingoes477 Sorry if I was too defensive there. The '12 miles the wrong side of the line' comment annoyed me. We are certainly very happy, although she complains I take up too much room in bed 😂