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I Have A Concern

My dad is been feeling ill lately, he had surgery on his neck, he has been pissing blood, and now he has been throwing up...
I really don’t know what do at this point. All he said that he just wanted to die and leave everything behind.

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PoetryNEmotion · F

Get him to the hospital now, please. Could be complications from the surgery. They will keep him there until he is better. Don't go to your family doctor if he/she has turned him away already. To the emergency room.
This blood is concerning me.

enimgaticcasper · 26-30, M

@PoetryNEmotion I have, but my dad just told me to go and all. I just wish I could be there for him

PoetryNEmotion · F

@enimgaticcasper He is ill. He needs to see an emergency room doctor. You said you took him to a doctor. How recent is the surgery? Is he eating/drinking? He has blood in his urine. Something is obviously wrong. He may be dehydrated. Likely is if throwing up. I don't know what the neck surgery was. You could call an ambulance. Could be a complication post-operatively. Only a doctor can diagnose for sure. I am not a doctor. I know you are worried. People who are ill often think it will go away and don't want to be fussed over. I am in healthcare. I am telling you what I think you should do.

enimgaticcasper · 26-30, M

I know, one thing about him is he is really stubborn, and he just said just take him there, have to be checking on my phone incase I have to take him home or hospital

PoetryNEmotion · F

@enimgaticcasper Sick people are stubborn. Take him or send him to the hospital. They can help him.

enimgaticcasper · 26-30, M

He is and always been stubborn. Once the doctor tell him to go to the hospital. I’m gonna get ready

PoetryNEmotion · F

@enimgaticcasper Let us know what happens, please.