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I Am Confused About My Relationship
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My girlfriend and her ex

I have been with my gf for almost a year and on her phone is messages to her ex husband up to 3 months after we met and made it official.. i have also found a couple of videos from about a month before we met that show her performal sexual acts, i am absolutely devostated and cant get the images out of my head.. as far as i new her Nd her husband had been seperated and non sexual for years before we met but obviously not.. she is verry compliand and comes from a life of being used and abused.. she states that all of it was just to keep him happy so she didnt have to deal with him angry.. i just dont know but it is hurting me so much because i lover her so so much but now i feel like my relationship with her is tainted..
HannahSavannah · 22-25, F
You're just a rebound.
Goralski · 51-55, M
She's an skank and she's not gonna change
DirtyRead2u · 41-45, M
Look bro, nobody likes to think about their partner with someone else let alone see it (except for swingers but thats not the case). Its normal to not like those images. But, she is with you now. By choice she is with you. Don’t punish her and yourself for her past from before you. She did nothing wrong. It doesn't matter why she did anything before starting with you. i used to be real jealous. At least at the time I thought I was jealous. Really I was insecure and scared. I was afraid I was not good enough for what ever reason. I ruined a lot of relationships because of it. If she is with you then you are good enough.
If you really love this girl you have to find a way to get pat this. I could try talking to her from the heart. Make sure you put your feelings on you though. Don’t let her think she did wrong at all. this might be hard given her past as you described it. You know her best so if you think even for a second she will blame herself then dI would not do it.
She is with you for a reason(s).Maybe you need to hear what they are. If you doubt them or her you are doomed. She is not going to lie to you but sometimes our fear has us lie to ourselves and blind us to the truth.
Oh and one other thing stay out of her phone.

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