I Am Confused About My Relationship

My bf regularly hangs out w 4 of his friends w their wives/gfs. So its a group of couples. One day we were all hanging out, I went in my bfs rooms to take a short nap, leaving them in the kitchen. After my nap, I walked in the kitchen towards my bf. The others were around the dining table abt 15 feet away. My bf n one of his friends gfs was talking softly by the kitchen sink, i couldn't hear much...My bf turned around and was like 'look she right there'. So they were talking abt me.