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I Am Confused About My Relationship

My bfs female friend and her friend(female) both threw him a bday party and told me that it was last min so they didn't invite me...I think they could have still called though. One of them spread a nasty rumor abt me previously. His bday was on my bros wedding, and I bought over cake the next day only to learn that he had this party.

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GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

People who are in solid relationships don't miss attending weddings together, or celebrating birthdays.

That he ignored BOTH of these events, without so much a word...?

I'm thinking your relationship is no where near as solid as you would like to believe.

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@GwydionFrost I questioning everything abt this relationship. However, the level of disrespect reached this point as I allowed it to. When minor disrespect happened in the past and I complained he called me controversial... And that caused me to stop complaining and accept shit

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@destinyfabulous It's a little on the longer side, but I wrote this years ago. Probably my most "famous" pieces around here and EP as well...

I'm betting you are about to learn something about your relationship:

https://similarworlds.com/4764229-Im-A-People-Watcher/573646-The-Four-Elements-A-Definitive-Guide-to-Successful

EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

🤔 Why wasn't your BF with you at your bro's wedding? 🙄

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EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

@destinyfabulous I agree. You two could have snuck off somewhere and had wedding sex. Now I'm starting to wonder if he already knew he was having a party with his female friend & her friend.

MissMollyCharlotte0702

I’m thinking the same thing. He already knew. Something about the female friend’s friend doesn’t sit right. @EnigmaticGeek

EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

@MissMollyCharlotte0702 I was getting the same vibe, and I don't even know any of those people.

MissMollyCharlotte0702

None of it sits right. He is your boyfriend and you should have been invited even if it was last minute. He also should have gone to your brother’s wedding. I’d dump him just for not going to that with me as weddings are full of couples and it’s a horrible feeling being single.
So who all was invited to this party they threw for him?

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@MissMollyCharlotte0702 the lady who three the party, her husband and her female friend, and abt two other couples

MissMollyCharlotte0702

A lot of people for last minute. I’d be mad.@destinyfabulous

PinkPowerRanger ·

he knew, thats why he didnt go to the wedding. whatever he says.

Shipwrecked · 46-50, M

@PinkPowerRanger I fear, you might be right...

Shipwrecked · 46-50, M

Just to make sure I'm understanding this correctly: Your boyfriend... didn't go with you, to your brother's wedding? Instead, he ventures off with two other women... and no one, thought to even mention it to you?! 🤤

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Shipwrecked · 46-50, M

@destinyfabulous I dunno... it could be circumstantial...🤔

It just seems odd to me, that's all.😞 I hope things get cleared up... but proceed with caution.

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@Shipwrecked even if it was circumstantial....they supposed to call and inform me...respectful thing to do.

Shipwrecked · 46-50, M

@destinyfabulous Absolutely! That's why it sounds so strange... like somebody's up to something. 🙁

hutaolover101 · 26-30, F

I smell some reason bullshit lol

Sicarium · 46-50, M

Just from this, there doesn't seem to be a much of a relationship from their end with any of them.

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@Sicarium what do u mean

Sicarium · 46-50, M

@destinyfabulous It doesn't seem like your BF or either of the two females think they have much of relationship with you.

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

Ohh

cloudi · 36-40, F

He didn't call you or say anything to you till the next day? What was his reasoning?

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@cloudi actually he called late in the night after the party to tell me. My main issue is w his friends who disregarded me and didn't tell me anything.

cloudi · 36-40, F

@destinyfabulous Well his friends should have told you their plan. But the most important thing for you to consider is your bf. Why didn't he want to come to the wedding? Did he ever date one of those friends of his? Btw how long have you dated him?

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@cloudi he never dated anyone of those friends...but one of them bad mouth me before. We have been dated over two years now.

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