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I Am Confused About My Relationship

I'm confused as to whether my bf wants me or not.
He don't 'invest in me' at all, dont take me out on dates, or buy things or treat me, also we meet once a week and when we do we hang out w his friends and he asks me for money a lot..although my pay is really small. So that have me thinking he dont want a future w me.
However...he tells everyone that we are getting married next year and he planned a trip for us in Late DEC and next year...so that's future planning.

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MrMonotone · 31-35, M

Have you addressed these concerns with him?

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@MrMonotone yes...repeatedly. D last time i asked to go on a date He told me that im 'over doing it'. So I never asked again. Also I told him that I need my money to buy make up, clothes, groceries, transport..he told me that we need to save to build out house, and budgeted my salary....which is tight to live on.
On time when we was at his friend's and I asked to go home..he got really.pissed.

MrMonotone · 31-35, M

Sounds like a bad situation...you've got to know you deserve better than that...if somethings upsetting you you're partner should be responsive and supportive especially with what little you're asking