Can someone be so broken that they can't even see they're inflicting the same pain on you?

Yes, unfortunately that happens all too often..

yeah. some people are amazing at living in denial.

Everybody does that.. one of the many reasons I hate people is that they can see when injustice is being done to them so then decide to take it out on the least deserving of people because the least deserving are the most likely to take it.

Yep. When we don’t attend to our wounds, we generally bleed out onto other people.

I’m guessing it’s more common than you think.

Yes. I think this is very common.

Yes.

Indeed. It’s easy to forget on the receiving end, but the broken often lash out. Sometimes it’s unintentionally.