I Think Everyone Has Problems
We all have problems, don't we ? Some are within our control and can be fixed, some can't. Some need little effort, some need more. Sometimes problems go away just by sharing it with a beloved one, sometimes it makes worse.
When we have problem or we are sad, we either deal with it our-self or involve other people to get a sense of relief/satisfaction. Unless the people we are sharing our problem with, happen to be our mom, dad or sibling its OK. But let me tell you what happens when we do the same with relatives, friends who are just acquaintance or just familiar people.
Out of 100 people, 60-65 will be happy you have a problem. The reason is many times only some form of interest binds people together. People don't want old friends once the move up the ladder in society. So unsuccessful people will want a successful person not to move upwards and instead have problem so he/she can still remain friends with the unsuccessful person.
Next only 30-35 % of the people will sympathize with you, but wont do anything instead of just giving you the comfort of words like it will be OK, you will be fine etc
The last 1-5 % will truly try to help you to the best of their ability and solve your problem or give good advice.
That's why - be careful who you share your problem with and think as a shoulder to cry on.
When we have problem or we are sad, we either deal with it our-self or involve other people to get a sense of relief/satisfaction. Unless the people we are sharing our problem with, happen to be our mom, dad or sibling its OK. But let me tell you what happens when we do the same with relatives, friends who are just acquaintance or just familiar people.
Out of 100 people, 60-65 will be happy you have a problem. The reason is many times only some form of interest binds people together. People don't want old friends once the move up the ladder in society. So unsuccessful people will want a successful person not to move upwards and instead have problem so he/she can still remain friends with the unsuccessful person.
Next only 30-35 % of the people will sympathize with you, but wont do anything instead of just giving you the comfort of words like it will be OK, you will be fine etc
The last 1-5 % will truly try to help you to the best of their ability and solve your problem or give good advice.
That's why - be careful who you share your problem with and think as a shoulder to cry on.
36-40, M
