I Am Having Family Problems

Ok so please don't judge me it has took a lot for me to come on here at write this.

I hate my family life, my teenage daughter who is 17 as made family life hell on earth over the past 3years or more. On a daily basis she tells me I'm fat, I'm a slag, I'm a useless Mum, I can't cook, laughs cause I only work a hour a day. Recently she told her college that she was homeless and that she was at harm obviously after they spoke to us they realised there was no problem and further action was taken. I just hate her she makes my life a misery. My husband is no use he doesn't take any side but does nothing when she kicks off. She needs help but won't get any if she refuses help we can't do anything. I just wanna run away and never come back I am not in love with my husband anymore and the only reason I stay is for my son and the lack of my own money. Please help is anyone in same position xx