I Am Into Kink

Soooo, I made a mistake... I am a dom, kinky, into bdsm, bondage and a bit of a sadist. Well I feel like my coworker knows. If he didn't know before.... he knows now... I went to a great fun and amazing kink party last weekend. I saw a guy in a sexy fun outfit and danced with him. I liked his outfit so much, because it was punky and cyber goth like, but... I guess also very bondage? There's a weird line with those things. Well I wanted to draw it. So I have been working on it and decided to bring it to work. Like there's no nudity, it looks cool. Well no one said much till my boss wanted me to show her friend my drawing. She then called it a kinky bondage drawing.... in front of the coworker that has been kinda hinting and trying to figure it out... he stood up for me and said it wasn't bad... but I feel outed...