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Is it weird that I kinda sorta have a crush on my new friend?

I am in a committed and stable relationship with my boyfriend who sorta knows and doesn't mind at all. MY new friend is also in a stable and long-term relationship which I wholeheartedly respect and would never interfere with but like hard core vibes which I sooo like her like a LOT. :(
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TurtlePink · 18-21, F
Absolutely not
Claire2k · 18-21, F
I don’t think it’s weird, sounds like you’re in control of the feelings so they shouldn’t cause any anguish. 😎👍
silver1sil · 22-25, F
[@524388,Claire2k] well I mean I have always liked girls I have kissed a few as away to keep people away from them as they had asked of me but I have never wanted to kiss a girl as much as I have her
Claire2k · 18-21, F
I think there’s a lot of girls who like other girls, I mean they’d prefer a guy long term but would like to have a ‘girl - friend’ - you know, a bit more than a friend 😊 I think it’s probably to do with being a caring affectionate person, I know I ‘like’ a couple of my girl friends maybe a touch more than I should 😊[@376166,silver1sil]
silver1sil · 22-25, F
[@524388,Claire2k] I have always known I have friends that IF we kissed I would be okay with and I Know I am going to stay with my boyfriend. I know exactly what you mean I would love to have either her or another person I am crushing on this hard to have in my life as a GIRL-FRIEND they could have their own stable relationship as well just have eachother at times..
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
You can't help who you get a crush on ... What you do next is up to you
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
[@376166,silver1sil] at least your honest...
silver1sil · 22-25, F
[@516864,ozgirl512] I don't see a point in lying. I love my boyfriend a lot he loves me and I know I want to be with him as he wants to be with me. I just know I would like to also kiss this girl who I have befriended and I didn't have ulterior motives besides being friends with her at the time she's just sooo HERSELF
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
[@376166,silver1sil] love and physical attraction are different
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
RoxClymer · 36-40, M
Someone new, interesting, probably made more so by the stable relationship

 
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