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Is it weird that I kinda sorta have a crush on my new friend?

I am in a committed and stable relationship with my boyfriend who sorta knows and doesn't mind at all. MY new friend is also in a stable and long-term relationship which I wholeheartedly respect and would never interfere with but like hard core vibes which I sooo like her like a LOT. :(

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ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

You can't help who you get a crush on ... What you do next is up to you

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ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

@silver1sil at least your honest...

silver1sil · 26-30, F

@ozgirl512 I don't see a point in lying. I love my boyfriend a lot he loves me and I know I want to be with him as he wants to be with me. I just know I would like to also kiss this girl who I have befriended and I didn't have ulterior motives besides being friends with her at the time she's just sooo HERSELF

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

@silver1sil love and physical attraction are different

Claire2k · 22-25, F

I don’t think it’s weird, sounds like you’re in control of the feelings so they shouldn’t cause any anguish. 😎👍

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silver1sil · 26-30, F

@Claire2k well I mean I have always liked girls I have kissed a few as away to keep people away from them as they had asked of me but I have never wanted to kiss a girl as much as I have her

Claire2k · 22-25, F

I think there’s a lot of girls who like other girls, I mean they’d prefer a guy long term but would like to have a ‘girl - friend’ - you know, a bit more than a friend 😊 I think it’s probably to do with being a caring affectionate person, I know I ‘like’ a couple of my girl friends maybe a touch more than I should 😊@silver1sil

silver1sil · 26-30, F

@Claire2k I have always known I have friends that IF we kissed I would be okay with and I Know I am going to stay with my boyfriend. I know exactly what you mean I would love to have either her or another person I am crushing on this hard to have in my life as a GIRL-FRIEND they could have their own stable relationship as well just have eachother at times..

DownTheStreet · 56-60, M

Happens

RoxClymer · 41-45, M

Someone new, interesting, probably made more so by the stable relationship

TurtlePink · 22-25, F

Absolutely not

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