I Don't Really Know What To Do
So today, I woke up to a Facebook message from my ex fiancé. We were together for 5 years. Anyways we have been split up for a year now. Basically the message says she’s been diagnosed with thyroid cancer. She congratulated me on my new accomplishments in life and wished me well, but insisted I knew about her diagnosis.
I know she isn’t lying about it. She’s never been the type of person to lie about anything. Especially health. She tries hard to avoid hospitals and medicines. Apparently she got so sick and someone forced her to go.
Am I supposed to care? Am I supposed to be there for her?
We haven’t had communication in such a long time. Anytime I went through anything she isn’t who I would think to go to especially after our breakup which was almost traumatic to me.
Most importantly, why is she reaching out to me? We agreed a long time ago we were done with each other for good.
I know she isn’t lying about it. She’s never been the type of person to lie about anything. Especially health. She tries hard to avoid hospitals and medicines. Apparently she got so sick and someone forced her to go.
Am I supposed to care? Am I supposed to be there for her?
We haven’t had communication in such a long time. Anytime I went through anything she isn’t who I would think to go to especially after our breakup which was almost traumatic to me.
Most importantly, why is she reaching out to me? We agreed a long time ago we were done with each other for good.
