I Hate Labels And Refuse To Label Myself
Recognize that the second you feel like using a negative word to describe someone it is because they are not saying or doing what you want. Say that instead, “That person is not doing what I want” instead of the word you were going to call them.
Isn’t it interesting how we conditionally label others based on how well they meet our standards or how pleasing they are to us? Ever stop to wonder that this feeling of being conditionally wanted is the realization that catapults many into the apathetic actions they take which we criticize daily?
Who actually “loves” us IF we shake our head instead of nod? Who “loves” us if we can’t function the way that satisfies majority best? Who “loves” us when we constantly contradict what those around us want us to accept? Being pleasing, productive, and harmless is the condition to being “loved”. No one is truly loved, and the test is that yes they want us to survive but only IF we are a pleasure and not someone that needs to be “fixed” too much to be an asset rather than a liability.
Before we go to negatively label others think first. Realize that it is precisely those labels that cause a person to feel conditionally wanted the fuel all of the apathy, anger, and discord in this world even though we all condition everyone and everything for the sake of avoiding more pain and survival.
Isn’t it interesting how we conditionally label others based on how well they meet our standards or how pleasing they are to us? Ever stop to wonder that this feeling of being conditionally wanted is the realization that catapults many into the apathetic actions they take which we criticize daily?
Who actually “loves” us IF we shake our head instead of nod? Who “loves” us if we can’t function the way that satisfies majority best? Who “loves” us when we constantly contradict what those around us want us to accept? Being pleasing, productive, and harmless is the condition to being “loved”. No one is truly loved, and the test is that yes they want us to survive but only IF we are a pleasure and not someone that needs to be “fixed” too much to be an asset rather than a liability.
Before we go to negatively label others think first. Realize that it is precisely those labels that cause a person to feel conditionally wanted the fuel all of the apathy, anger, and discord in this world even though we all condition everyone and everything for the sake of avoiding more pain and survival.
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