I Am In a Taken In Hand Relationship
Update... Hi everyone!! I thought I would give an update. It's been some time since I have been in ep world. I miss you all and can't wait to catch up on your stories :)
So lets see... I have been getting up at 4am every time my hoh wakes me. I'm finding it does get easier. I am on his schedule now. I am no longer saying to him "your tired already!" Hahaha we're going to bed the same time as well. I'm really enjoying the half hour we get every morning. Then I get about 2 hours to myself before the kids get up.
I have not been "punished" in weeks. Thank goodness! I'm still getting used to that phrase. The honeymoon effect is over. But things are still wonderful. I have definitely learned things the hard way. Bad attention is not good. For me or my bum!
We have been in a daily pattern and although at times I think "has he forgotten about dd/tih?" Of coarse I give my test and he is quick with the come back. It sets me in my tracks and I'm happy all over again.
For example. He will ask me to do things and ill say in a winey voice "I don't wanna" or "no" or "what makes you think you can tell me what to do?" Bahahaha the answer is always with a look and mostly with him saying "you do as your told" or "did you forget who is boss?" Sometimes I think I do it just to hear his authority and his tone. I honestly feel it reconnects us. It's also my little way of telling him "I need you".
Things are great here. I couldn't be happier. I am very much in love. And after 14 years together I feel that is a blessing.
So lets see... I have been getting up at 4am every time my hoh wakes me. I'm finding it does get easier. I am on his schedule now. I am no longer saying to him "your tired already!" Hahaha we're going to bed the same time as well. I'm really enjoying the half hour we get every morning. Then I get about 2 hours to myself before the kids get up.
I have not been "punished" in weeks. Thank goodness! I'm still getting used to that phrase. The honeymoon effect is over. But things are still wonderful. I have definitely learned things the hard way. Bad attention is not good. For me or my bum!
We have been in a daily pattern and although at times I think "has he forgotten about dd/tih?" Of coarse I give my test and he is quick with the come back. It sets me in my tracks and I'm happy all over again.
For example. He will ask me to do things and ill say in a winey voice "I don't wanna" or "no" or "what makes you think you can tell me what to do?" Bahahaha the answer is always with a look and mostly with him saying "you do as your told" or "did you forget who is boss?" Sometimes I think I do it just to hear his authority and his tone. I honestly feel it reconnects us. It's also my little way of telling him "I need you".
Things are great here. I couldn't be happier. I am very much in love. And after 14 years together I feel that is a blessing.
41-45, F
