I Believe Women Should Obey Their Husbands

To an extent I agree with this. But I also think the opposite can be required, or a situation of mutual accountability such as we have in our home. I think it depends on the partners involved. If one partner has a tendency towards poor attitudes or behaviour then a more one-sided arrangement is probably appropriate. If both tend to err from the acceptable then mutual accountability is needed.
I say this as a husband living in a mutual domestic discipline relationship