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This always happens

My mom always compares me with other people. She says that I am a failure compared to others. My mom is happy when we achieved something but in times of need or failure, I don't experience having her say that it is okay and that I can do it better next time. I just want her to say that it's okay to fail but what did I get? I will be disowned just for telling my feelings.

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SStarfish ·

Sorry that you have a terrible mom.. Imagine having an actual mom that apreciates your efforts and was proud of you regardless

She needs to sort her priorities

But did you actually give it your best efforts? Who says there will be a next time.. But even if you did better than anyone else.. It seems your mom is the type to just criticize you with every chance she gets.. It's not you, its her.. She's a bitterly unhappy person who resents life and has an inferiority complex and is picking on you because of it.. 😏