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I Want Friends Who Are Actually Friends

What I have realized, is that when every time I seem to feel more negative about myself when I hangout with specific "friends" is that they need to go and that means slowly cutting contact with them. Essentially if you tend to always feel down when hanging with someone who is not building you up than they must go. My esteem is worth it and so am I.

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Fernie · F

It's up to you to improve your self esteem...you feel those things because you have low self esteem...you have the power to improve that. You didn't explain what these "friends" do to make you feel down...no one can "make" you feel anything. Of course you wouldn't hang with toxic, abusive people but it doesn't seem the people you speak of are that way...at least you weren't specific about that.Don't wait for others to improve your self esteem or to make you happy.

aaaabbbb

This is unfortunate, why do you feel negative about yourself? We have to try to hangout with the people who inspire us to be a better person. What are they saying or doing to make you feel that way?

Wiseacre · F

Yes, sure...drop the energy vampires!
Find ppl who value u!!

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