I Cherish My Family and Friends
I caught up with Black Star this weekend.
She is changing for the better again. She changes all of the time. I am with someone different everytime I meet up with her. That is what it feels like anyway. I get to know her all over again. She is different in her life’s morals, but she is still courageous, kind, reliable, and trustworthy. She is always revamping her life’s morals, values and principles.
She told me she was over the past. Seeing certain people in the past reminds her of unworthy or annoying memories sometimes. She wished everyone in the past wellness. She is a different person now. She is always improving on herself. She keeps her good characteristic traits. If she can let go of the past, she will let go of the past. There is no hard feelings. Everyone lives seperate lives now. She can never see them ever again and they are not in her life anymore. Being seperate for a long time, so it natural to be more incompatible in everything now. Everything is more different now. It is all good. She does not care at all because she is not in their lives. Whatever they do is none of her businesses. She is happy right now and she hopes everyone well.
I was surprise. It shows how much kinder she is than what most people thinks of her. People only remember her rages when they are literally the cause of her rages. This is why incompatible people must never ever be at the same place if hell only breaks out. Naturally, she was fresh air. I remembered being together when we were younger. This was before all of her conflicts in life.
Experiences change people.
Black Star legitimately disowned the whole family now. She told me the family treated her the worse out of everyone she had ever met or encountered in all of her life. All her problems were minor compared to the harm caused by the family. She only loves her mother and her little sister right now.
She told me, “When I was born into this whole family, I can’t decide who are in my family. Being an independent adult, I can pick out my own family now. I can choose who I want to share my time with and who I want stay connected to. I refuse to select abusers as family.”
I respect her decisions. She has her own personal reasons. It is her life. I can never judge her. I do not know how much pain the family inflict and affect her overall life. Different people are different to one another. She has the right to feel happy and safe in her own personal life too. She has the right to be at peace in her own home. There is no need to put up with incompatible people in her personal home and life. Personal is personal. Independence, peace and privacy are what she maintains anyway.
She is a sensitive person and she goes through a lot in life alone for her age. Whatever makes her happy is only good. She only seem kinder to everyone when she is happy. May be she will return to her old kind & sweet self by burning incompatible bridges in her life. She was very sweet when we were younger.
I do feel for her because she such a different person. She is the most unique person in my life right now. All the experiences in her life made her more matured and more different. People our age are partying, living it up or whatever making them happy. Those are only healthy and natural. She is not into those activities.
The truth is I do not 100% understand her. I do feel bad because I know she not a bad person. Her intentions are always well or harmless, but some people are determined to see the worse in her mind, words and actions.
Being extremely different is tough. There are not many people that can understands her, therefore the majority think they are right about her. The truth is the major can be wrong too. How can the majority know everything about her when all they know is all they know. All they understand is all they understand. How can the majority 100% know anything about someone when empathy, sensitivity, and interpretation levels are different for everyone. They all have the same or limited views about her. When the majority is wrong, most people are wrong. Sometimes getting information from the mass can backfire. They cannot understand her the way I know her. We chat about everything from earth to the universe. We were together since we were young.
To understand a little bit about a person is to experience what they are traumatise about with the same level of sensitivity or mindset. Everything must be the same to 100% understand.
It is difficult because no one is the same and no one has the same level of sensitivity, understanding, mindset, etc.
No one can always experience the same experience. No one receive the same meaning and interpretation from the same experience because everyone have different bodies, souls, minds, etc. It is complex.
Going through the same experience never guarantees 100% understanding of anyone. Different people receives the same information different. This is why true compatibility is actually rare. It is actually rare and hard for people to truly connect. It is more rare and hard for extremely unique people to fine one another. The rules and requirements are even more different.
Most people can never understand her at all, so It is a lonely world for her. She likes solitudes, so it is all good for her. I am more open-minded and understanding because I know her. I only understand what she allows me to understand or using empathy to understand her better. I can never 100% understand her too, but I care about her. I known her since I was young. she was born sweet and kind. She is only protecting herself now.
Knowing this makes me want to be there for her even more. It is hurtful to have no one because she is such a nice person, even though she is happier. I am glad we are compatible, although I do not 100% understand her. I will be there for her, whenever it is possible. I do respect her personal reasons and I do accept her for who she is. We are genuine and authentic to one another. She keeps to herself certain parts of her. I respect that. I do not need to know everything about her. I am not the heaven or the hell. There are something I cannot seem to grasp about her, but that is fine because we are both honest, considerate, respectful, open-minded, genuine, reliable, compatible, trustworthy, kind, etc. Those are important.
When everyone is different with different views, morals, beliefs, wants, needs, lifestyles, everything, etc, there is no comparison in anything. I respect her personal lifestyles. I respect her personal decisions and reasons in life. They do not affect my personal life and space because they are personal. She does whatever makes her happy. It is all cool. I know better, so I never judge her.
She is changing for the better again. She changes all of the time. I am with someone different everytime I meet up with her. That is what it feels like anyway. I get to know her all over again. She is different in her life’s morals, but she is still courageous, kind, reliable, and trustworthy. She is always revamping her life’s morals, values and principles.
She told me she was over the past. Seeing certain people in the past reminds her of unworthy or annoying memories sometimes. She wished everyone in the past wellness. She is a different person now. She is always improving on herself. She keeps her good characteristic traits. If she can let go of the past, she will let go of the past. There is no hard feelings. Everyone lives seperate lives now. She can never see them ever again and they are not in her life anymore. Being seperate for a long time, so it natural to be more incompatible in everything now. Everything is more different now. It is all good. She does not care at all because she is not in their lives. Whatever they do is none of her businesses. She is happy right now and she hopes everyone well.
I was surprise. It shows how much kinder she is than what most people thinks of her. People only remember her rages when they are literally the cause of her rages. This is why incompatible people must never ever be at the same place if hell only breaks out. Naturally, she was fresh air. I remembered being together when we were younger. This was before all of her conflicts in life.
Experiences change people.
Black Star legitimately disowned the whole family now. She told me the family treated her the worse out of everyone she had ever met or encountered in all of her life. All her problems were minor compared to the harm caused by the family. She only loves her mother and her little sister right now.
She told me, “When I was born into this whole family, I can’t decide who are in my family. Being an independent adult, I can pick out my own family now. I can choose who I want to share my time with and who I want stay connected to. I refuse to select abusers as family.”
I respect her decisions. She has her own personal reasons. It is her life. I can never judge her. I do not know how much pain the family inflict and affect her overall life. Different people are different to one another. She has the right to feel happy and safe in her own personal life too. She has the right to be at peace in her own home. There is no need to put up with incompatible people in her personal home and life. Personal is personal. Independence, peace and privacy are what she maintains anyway.
She is a sensitive person and she goes through a lot in life alone for her age. Whatever makes her happy is only good. She only seem kinder to everyone when she is happy. May be she will return to her old kind & sweet self by burning incompatible bridges in her life. She was very sweet when we were younger.
I do feel for her because she such a different person. She is the most unique person in my life right now. All the experiences in her life made her more matured and more different. People our age are partying, living it up or whatever making them happy. Those are only healthy and natural. She is not into those activities.
The truth is I do not 100% understand her. I do feel bad because I know she not a bad person. Her intentions are always well or harmless, but some people are determined to see the worse in her mind, words and actions.
Being extremely different is tough. There are not many people that can understands her, therefore the majority think they are right about her. The truth is the major can be wrong too. How can the majority know everything about her when all they know is all they know. All they understand is all they understand. How can the majority 100% know anything about someone when empathy, sensitivity, and interpretation levels are different for everyone. They all have the same or limited views about her. When the majority is wrong, most people are wrong. Sometimes getting information from the mass can backfire. They cannot understand her the way I know her. We chat about everything from earth to the universe. We were together since we were young.
To understand a little bit about a person is to experience what they are traumatise about with the same level of sensitivity or mindset. Everything must be the same to 100% understand.
It is difficult because no one is the same and no one has the same level of sensitivity, understanding, mindset, etc.
No one can always experience the same experience. No one receive the same meaning and interpretation from the same experience because everyone have different bodies, souls, minds, etc. It is complex.
Going through the same experience never guarantees 100% understanding of anyone. Different people receives the same information different. This is why true compatibility is actually rare. It is actually rare and hard for people to truly connect. It is more rare and hard for extremely unique people to fine one another. The rules and requirements are even more different.
Most people can never understand her at all, so It is a lonely world for her. She likes solitudes, so it is all good for her. I am more open-minded and understanding because I know her. I only understand what she allows me to understand or using empathy to understand her better. I can never 100% understand her too, but I care about her. I known her since I was young. she was born sweet and kind. She is only protecting herself now.
Knowing this makes me want to be there for her even more. It is hurtful to have no one because she is such a nice person, even though she is happier. I am glad we are compatible, although I do not 100% understand her. I will be there for her, whenever it is possible. I do respect her personal reasons and I do accept her for who she is. We are genuine and authentic to one another. She keeps to herself certain parts of her. I respect that. I do not need to know everything about her. I am not the heaven or the hell. There are something I cannot seem to grasp about her, but that is fine because we are both honest, considerate, respectful, open-minded, genuine, reliable, compatible, trustworthy, kind, etc. Those are important.
When everyone is different with different views, morals, beliefs, wants, needs, lifestyles, everything, etc, there is no comparison in anything. I respect her personal lifestyles. I respect her personal decisions and reasons in life. They do not affect my personal life and space because they are personal. She does whatever makes her happy. It is all cool. I know better, so I never judge her.
