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I Want to Start a New Life

2018, you better be ready for another ''new year, new me'' decision. Because this time, I'm serious.

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in10RjFox · M

Good... so how do you plan to live different to say that it is new ?

Melpomene · 22-25, F

@in10RjFox Different lifestyle, duh. I changed lots of things actually. Why?

in10RjFox · M

@Melpomene just making you introspect. Usually none bother to query even though you may be serious. Changing things is just rearranging ... but reorganising self is different.

Melpomene · 22-25, F

@in10RjFox ..thanks, I guess, but you don't have to worry, my anxiety makes me question every thought way too many times. Hmh. Y'know, just because most of the people do, doesn't mean there aren't special snowflakes like I am that actually bother to change something...
I hate your generalizing. I'm different (crazy, but different) and rules doesn't really apply to that.

in10RjFox · M

@Melpomene think you mistook me. I was referring to others not you , when I said people don't bother or take intetest when someone says I am going to start afresh.

Melpomene · 22-25, F

@in10RjFox I didn't. I know what you wrote. Can you see what you're doing? You're bordering yourself by generalizations. A lot of people gives up. I was giving up too. "new year resolutions, b-day resolutions, I'll start on Monday..." I gave up so many times. But I also tried a lot of times. I started something a lot of times. Just because someone gave up today doesn't mean tomorrow he or she won't try again and succeed.
Rarely anyone starts afresh. The path to success is filled quite a lot with holes and cries and giving up on everything

in10RjFox · M

@Melpomene yes.. rarely anyone says so.. and that too thiz time very serious.. so got curious to know more...

Expected an answer like until last year I was living in an Illusion about xx yy etc. And now I got to know that it is like this .. so plan to live in this manner etc..

But never expected this reaction.

Melpomene · 22-25, F

@in10RjFox Sorry but for someone that philosophical I get a feeling you live in a box (metaphorically). It's great you question everything but I think you're sorta too mold.

DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M

@Melpomene a TED talk once told me the best question kids ever ask: “when tomorrow?” - it forces a different kind of planning. A plan for daily life. The daily life we want. What fits when. And where? Best moment in a long time for me :)