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I Dont Believe In Dating Just For the Sake of Dating

[c=#7700B2]funny how that when you are not interested in dating or any real affection from anyone, seems to be the time you get the most attention..

got asked to go out on a date again today.. I feel really bad for saying no but I don't feel any interest in dating..

lol damn when I wanted to be in a relationship and wanted that fairy tale romance, I was basically invisible to men.. guys are weird lol[/c]

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SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M

At least the opposite sex seems to want you to some degree...I'm the kind of guy who could hang out all night in a bar filled with 50 women and 15 other men and still go home alone.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]maybe the key is not caring and act like you don't care :)[/c]

SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M

I cannot honestly say that has ever worked for me. Girls don't seem to want me whether I am interested in dating or not...probably because of how I look.

Don't believe me? Check out the photos of myself I put on here.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]pffft just looked.. your a good looking dude. maybe confidence is what is holding you back.. maybe?[/c]

SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries Why do I always have to be the one to embrace the women and flirt with them? Why can't any of them ever embrace me and start flirting?

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]you don't have to do it.. but if you want to be with someone, it sure helps to make the first move instead of waiting around and hoping somone does it back[/c]

SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries That's exactly the problem. Nine times out of ten these days, unless you are a certified hottie, women are nowhere near as inclined to walk up to men and start flirting...so it's almost like they force me to do it. Which makes me all the more inclined to withdraw (the idea of being forced to do anything turns me off).

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]nobody is forcing you to do anything though... seems to be a really bad way to look at things.. sorry but it is[/c]

SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries The other thing is that I live in a fucking college town, where just about every pretty face I encounter ends up dating the nearest pair of legs with dick and genitalia between them.