I had started this lifestyle years ago, after finding the book Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle, and it worked magically to improve my marriage. Lost the game in between, when I was seriously sick. It's hard to be your best self, when you don't feel well. I nagged and complained and critisized constantly, which is a killer to any marriage. Our marriage had deteriated to rock bottom and I was extremely depressed. Then a friend talked me into walking with her and our dogs every morning, which got me over the depression and I realised my mistakes and I started all over again! Reading Fascinating Womanhood, The proper care and feeding of Husbands, etc. and learning once more how to treat a husband with respect and give him space to be himself. Within weeks our relationship blossomed again, he started to trust me again, dropped his wall of reserve and came out of his shell! It's the most amazing feeling to know, that by supporting him and treating him well, you get everything in return what you dreamt of: love, help with whatever you need and ultimate intimacy!@
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