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Is it OK to hate yourself for being Bisexual?

I love my boyfriend for the moment and I do want him.
It is just the fact that I also like girls.
My mind is just tearing itself apart.
Maybe I should just be single forever and avoid relationships at all costs.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
If you love and want your current boyfriend, concentrate on him....it isn’t fair to not put full effort into the relationship.
As long as he’s aware that you like girls as well, there’s no reason not to continue your relationship with him.
You’re new to this....the fact that you’re also attracted to women does not mean that you have to look for them while you’re in a relationship with a man.
Don’t hate yourself, but don’t give your boyfriend reason to hate the way you are either.
SW-User
You should never hate yourself. It is what it is.
Effloresce · 26-30, F
I hated myself for it in the beginning, mostly because the sudden realization of it all surprised and devastated me. I can’t speak much for relationships but I understand what you’re feeling
SW-User
What's wrong with being attracted to more than one gender, that you're willing to hate yourself for it?
Peppa · 31-35, F
Is this because you desire to be with a woman now or as well. Is he open to being in something open? Is he open to being apart of a poly relationship? Is it too upsetting to him knowing you like women too?
Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
I will just have to talk to him. he doesn't mind being in an open relationship with other men but he gets jealous of girls. @Peppa
Peppa · 31-35, F
@Sroonaka616 I see well good luck
Ynotisay · M
You should have stopped at "Is it OK to hate yourself." Doesn't matter why. Seems pretty foolish to me but some people prefer to be unhappy.
SW-User
I go through it all the time. that's why i am single because I'm with one then I want the other sex. 😔 people say it's the best of both worlds but it's really not
DDonde · 31-35, M
No, but I can relate 😔
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SW-User
@Emosaur aww...I feel that way but it's the opposite with me with guys lmao

 
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