Should I offer my friend $10 to message our old friend, to ask him why he won't talk to me anymore?
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Generally, when someone stops speaking to us without a word, it says a lot about the kind of person they are. Please don't waste your time or money. If the guy wants to speak with you, he will reach out. If he doesn't, he obviously has issues and it's better for you not to have to deal with them.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
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@JupiterDreams It's natural for us to miss people we previously felt we had a good relationship with. It's confusing when they don't give us closure. But, it's a very toxic way for someone to end a relationship. If he stopped talking to you because he didn't feel about his relationship with you, the way you felt about it with him, AND he took the time to tell you that, would you really feel better knowing? I know I wouldn't. It's a hurtful thing to say to someone. Sometimes, it's just better for our own mental health to leave certain situations alone.