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Being positive

Guys, I was feeling gloomy lately and there's never really a quick cure but I want to celebrate doing something good for myself. I really miss going out and dressing up and buying clothes which has been denied to me this year. I've had trouble in the past with body image and it can be a vicious, negative cycle so killed two birds with one stone and refreshed my wardrobe with gorgeous new things that make me love how I look. A positive I am taking from this year is that I'm not going to force myself in to anyone else's ideal but accept myself as I am ❤️

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helsbels · 26-30, F
Guys I appreciate the sentiment but pleeease know you can compliment a woman in a way that doesn't reference 'sexiness' etc, I want to look nice, I want to feel confident and dress for me, of course you are allowed to find women attractive but some things are not appropriate. I don't want to sound preachy because yes I put these photos on here to be looked at but just being a woman, having a body, doesn't make you a sex object. I hope you get where I'm coming from. Thanks for all the comments that do respect this!
bluegrasslover · 41-45, M
@helsbels I'm sorry
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bluegrasslover · 41-45, M
@helsbels I did not mean to offend or be inappropriate
helsbels · 26-30, F
@bluegrasslover It's ok, I know you meant no harm but sometimes I don't want to be 'sexy', I just want to be me 😄
bluegrasslover · 41-45, M
@helsbels that's good. you have a playful glow to you and I want you to be you