I Am An Incel

@Notanymore it's what happens when "the talk" consists of "love will find YOU".

@UnlikelyTomato the talk? Like the father to son talk?

@Notanymore yea

@UnlikelyTomato okay. And that leads to be involuntarily celebate? I'm not trying to argue, just curious

@Notanymore these men have the notion that good things should be happening to them just because they want them to.
as we all know, people need to work for what they want and relationships are no exception.
These people have been told that good things will happen to "good people" weather or not they work for it, and that "love will find them" even if they aren't looking for it.
once these deluded individuals leave school they are given a taste of reality and they feel cheated as if it's not their fault and thus blame others for their own inability to make things happen.

This is my opinion why these perpetually single selfish men exist.
they need to grow up and realize nothing is free.

@UnlikelyTomato I agree with your opinion....

@Notanymore just by being to scared to ask a girl out , and not knowing how to ask for sex.

@AfroDOS that's a very blunt way to go about it, but yea.
you don't do the work you don't get the prize.

@UnlikelyTomato blunt is how you have to be with most of them,

@AfroDOS the truth is often cruel. but so is life.

@UnlikelyTomato tbh if you aren’t direct the sugary approach can earn you a stalker

@AfroDOS agreed.
I have no sympathy toward incels.
they have no drive to solves their own problems and if they suffer for it, so be it.
It's not society's responsibility to make these man children happy.

@UnlikelyTomato but I do blame parents who don’t teach their kids, that just because they want something it doesn’t mean they’ll get it .

And almost nothing is free

@AfroDOS absolutely nothing is free.
even if it has no monetary cost it still demands time.
blaming the past generation is pointless, we need to criticize them and learn for the next.