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Notanymore these men have the notion that good things should be happening to them just because they want them to.
as we all know, people need to work for what they want and relationships are no exception.
These people have been told that good things will happen to "good people" weather or not they work for it, and that "love will find them" even if they aren't looking for it.
once these deluded individuals leave school they are given a taste of reality and they feel cheated as if it's not their fault and thus blame others for their own inability to make things happen.
This is my opinion why these perpetually single selfish men exist.
they need to grow up and realize nothing is free.