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Why do some people fall in love and marry and some don't?

I used to think if you wanted it bad enough it will happen. All my old friends are married except for one and she has been married once before. I'm not a good conversationalist but I still don't think thats a cause.

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hunkalove · 61-69, M

I've never been married. I remember looking at my parents when I was quite young and thinking if that's what it's like I never want to get married. And I haven't.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@hunkalove I guess their marriage imprinted onto you and lowered your expectations so that you didn’t even consider it. You never know though.

hunkalove · 61-69, M

@cherokeepatti They were horrible people. My mother was mentally-ill and my father was the worst human being I have ever known.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@hunkalove So you never once found a woman that was sane and sober and kind that you would have considered marrying?

hunkalove · 61-69, M

@cherokeepatti Nope. A sane woman?

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@hunkalove hey now

hunkalove · 61-69, M

@cherokeepatti I've started to get married 3 times, but they got smart and realized what a total loser I am.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@hunkalove maybe you messed up deliberately so you wouldn’t risk losing the relationship after getting married.