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I Want To Share What Ive Learned On EP

So I have been on EP for a little while now. And several things have struck me as strange and kind of eye opening. So I am going to attempt to share some insights I've learned from being here. Please don't crucify me. These are just my observations.

1.) Most men on here are probably on here to try and see naughty pics or have a naughty conversation with a willing girl. Notice I said a willing participant. I dont think the majority of guys are trying to be overbearing or pushy. If you girls dont want to participate like that then just say so. No harm no foul.

2.) You girls are super quick to label a guy as a creep and block him for the smallest things. Give him a chance to explain himself or better yet say something and more than likely he will backtrack and straighten up.

3.) Girls, if you have an experience like "Female exhibitionist" or "I Like to Flash my Boobs" dont be surprised when guys want to talk to you about those experiences. If you don't want to talk about it then dont say you like those things.

4.) Of all the messages I have back and forth with my so called "friends" on here, I have initiated every single one. I can't be the only one that is curious about other peoples experiences. Girls, dont be afraid to ask questions too. What I like most of all on EP is chatting with someone about a topic that interests me. Not once has a girl ever initiated a conversation with me.

5.) Guys dont be offended when the majority of girls on EP are only interested in other girls.

6.) Most people are really nice, but there are a few that are downright rude. There is no reason to be rude. Just because EP provides some anonymity doesn't mean you have to use that mask to tear other people down. There is enough hate in this world. Keep your comments to yourself if they are rude. Or at least have some constructive criticism.

7.) If possible, try and respond to everyone's PMs. No one likes to be ignored. I understand that the majority of girls on this site get bombarded with notifications each and every day.

8.) Keep your friend count to a manageable level. This isn't a popularity contest. Are you really being fair to your "friends" on here who are genuinely interested in your experiences when their comments, questions, or PMs get buried so far underneath the incredible volume of notifications that you can't even respond? Just saying.

9.) Everyone deserves a audience with an open mind. If you don't like something, then either dont look, find something else that interests you, or say something in a positive way.

I guess I'll get off my soapbox now. I just felt like I needed to put something out there and share this experience. Take it or leave it. EP can be really fun or really discouraging. I've experienced both. Hopefully for you its more fun than not.



RikkiXX
Fair points, nicely said. I think you have a pretty good understanding of EP.
One thing I will say though, is that just because I have selected a number of 'adult' experiences (usually via the 'me too' button) and quite often try to push the boundaries of the EP censors with my profile pics, that doesn't mean I'll treat the opening line "show me your tits" with anything more than contempt. There is a lot more to me than breasts and I have written several stories that highlight the things I am into when I don't have my boobs out in the breeze!
We are all complete human beings, even if we like being a bit naughty behind the anonymity provided by EP. Just as you probably wouldn't start a date by ripping a girls top open and staring, some of you guys might like to try warming us up with some conversation about things you've gone to the trouble of finding out interest us, then slowly working towards greater levels of intimacy.
I can't speak for all the girls here, but that is how you're most likely to turn me on!
Final point - if I initiated many conversations here, my inbox - which currently receives around 100 hits a day, would explode! If I see a story that really interests me, I'll go into the author's profile and, if I'm still intrigued, start a thread. It just seems to be the way of the world. Guys chase and push, leaving girls the luxury of choosing from their many would-be suitors.
Thanks for your thoughts! 馃槃
Thank you Rikki. I appreciate your insights as well. I dont think anyone should ever lead a conversation with "show me your tits". I try to follow the same pattern you do. I find something interesting on someones profile and try to start a conversation that way. I think that is how you and i became friends here. I just wish it worked both ways, both being chased and both having the luxury to choose from many interesting conversations and experiences.
1pebbles
in response to #5- I am a girl and AM not interested in girls. men are far to interesting and have an appendage that responds appropriately to visual stimulation or words. I love when a man can be sensitive and intimate or when he becomes out of control and beast like in his sexual response. he is a care taker, provider, emotionally and sexually. he is intricately wired and I'll take that any day over a woman!
I'm glad you feel that way. Like I said in #5 though is that the majority of women on EP aren't looking to talk to guys at all. At least that's been my experience so far. You are an interesting person and I appreciate your comments and the chats we've had.

 
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