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12 hr text backs?..

Would you ask a person why they take so long to respond, or should I just cut them off?

I've been having this acquaintance for over a yr now. I've tried to make friends but how can I get around to asking you to hang out if you text every couple of hours?

I stopped contacting her for a while. Bit every now and then she'll send a weird " hey, just checking in text".

What's the point of that if you aren't gonna actually check in, see how a person is doing etc...?

I'm pretty sure she can text at work.
I want to ask " can you not text at work"? But I don't want to sound pushy. Just trying to either make a friend or drop her ass💁‍♀️

(I know where she works and what she does for work.)
I don't live on my phone the way some people do.
I'm lucky to get even one call or text per week so I tend to not even bother checking it.
Friends find it far easier to reach me by email.

Unless it was literally a life or death emergency, I'd be furious if anybody tried to ring me at work.
My boss is paying for my time and has a right to my full attention to the job.
fun4us2b · M
I have a family member like this...it is very annoying, and I keep thinking something is seriously wrong with this...
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@fun4us2b yes it is. Especially annoying when it's a group text and everyone else gets faster responses. But they are just acquaintances from a real life group I started. I'm ok with letting go of them. No real connection were made. I can say I tried
fun4us2b · M
@iamnikki It's their loss...
Dont respond anymore she seems to be playing a stupid game or may have problems.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Cutiepi23 yea I think I'll move on
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Cutiepi23 now she's saying we should hang out since she's gotten the covid vaccine
Threaten violence with a rocket launcher
I go days without responding. And sometimes it’s right away. Nothing deeply meaningful behind it for me.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@KrackerBash why do you wait days to respond?

 
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