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dondon · M
No I'm actually this boring.
SW-User
@dondon lol
SW-User
Ignoring is so much easier and so much more effective..
Thespis · M
Luckily, I come by that trait naturally...
Fernie · F
I tell them I don't feel like talking...I don't get what is so hard about speaking the truth
JValentina · 31-35, F
@Fernie That's not really the truth though because in reality, it's not that you don't feel like talking but rather that you don't feel like talking to them specifically. As I said, I'm very talkative. I love to talk, but not to people who respond to everything with a tiny variation of one or two worded replies when I type paragraphs. That's not much of a conversation and certainly not one I ever like to have. It goes nowhere. To say that I don't feel like talking implies that I'm just not up for it at the moment, not that I'd prefer they not contact me anymore.
Fernie · F
@JValentina My point is....be honest and tell the person the truth...everything you've said implies that you want to find a way to make this person stop what...being boring? Talking too much?,,,everything but speaking the truth. Whatever the issue is....I say tell her the truth...the way you said it here...yes...it IS the truth...it sets you free...and you won't have to keep suffering with it...TRUTH
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
That's how ya shake a narcissist
Fernie · F
@Starcrossed how do you know the person is a narcissist? Everyone since trump seems to be one
xixgun · M
I don't have to pretend.
Success · 26-30, F
Uh-huh.
Powderflask · 31-35, M
No, not at all.
ncgremlin · 56-60, M
Yes I do
No
DDonde · 31-35, M
Does that actually work?
JValentina · 31-35, F
@DDonde It's nicer than telling them to fuck off, in my opinion. At least that way THEY are the ones making the decision to stop contacting YOU because you are too boring. And of course, your feelings aren't getting hurt either because they are doing exactly what you want them to do, which is to stop contacting you.