Why does my best friend always think I'm rude when I'm just stating the facts?
Okay so when I told her about this guy I liked she was like, "Does he go to your high school?" I was like, "Hell no! I wish he did though."
She said, "Jeez I was just asking. That was rude." I was like, "Well it's true." Then I explained the rest of the story.
When my friend asks for an honest answer or opinion, I tell her straight up but I'm not rude. I was being sincere.
I shouldn't have to apologize for being direct and honest. My dad taught us to be outspoken and stand up to what we believe. I always stand up for myself and I'm not afraid to. Best friends should be honest with each other, even it it's painful. I may be a sweet heart but I'm not going to let people push me over. Some people think I'm rude for standing up for myself. Of course I don't say shit unless I'm asked.
Would my best friend rather me lie to her to protect her feelings?
She said, "Jeez I was just asking. That was rude." I was like, "Well it's true." Then I explained the rest of the story.
When my friend asks for an honest answer or opinion, I tell her straight up but I'm not rude. I was being sincere.
I shouldn't have to apologize for being direct and honest. My dad taught us to be outspoken and stand up to what we believe. I always stand up for myself and I'm not afraid to. Best friends should be honest with each other, even it it's painful. I may be a sweet heart but I'm not going to let people push me over. Some people think I'm rude for standing up for myself. Of course I don't say shit unless I'm asked.
Would my best friend rather me lie to her to protect her feelings?
22-25, F
