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How do i deal with passive agressive "friends"

The question is: [b]Should I confront them or move on?[/b]
(sorry bit of a long backstory)

These three girls are the only people I've known here in university for 6 months
But long story short they can be not nice at times.
They give me snacks and if I need help when sick they will give me meds. I do the same for them tho.

Anyway they also don't invite me when they're going out, they plan all these get togethers and don't bother to mention, two times I was left behind when they where going out and I had told them I wanna join.
So I began spending less time with them last month I'm hearing they're talking behind my back about me being distant and having new friends and how I'm acting like I'm upset, when reality is I'm tired of being treated like I don't matter.
They're not your friends. They had plenty of time to become one but have not chosen to. You're under no obligation to be a friend to them.

If someone does not accept you for who you are, they're not your friend. Move onto other people who you feel you can be yourself with.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@DudeistPriest true true. I do kind of feel that they want me to be something else
SW-User
All these fake ass uni friends won’t even matter once you graduate so just be cordial with them and focus on your classes because such people are insufferable
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User I do want people to go out with and stuff but I'm realising this isn't my true friend crowd
SW-User
@RaemaSnr you answered your own question, no point in hanging out with them if they’re so gossipy
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User gotcha, sometimes you just need to hear other people perspective to gain your own, I did 👍
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RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User Yeah they where the only classmates who spoke to me first so I thought we where friends
Thanks
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RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User here's to hoping!
TacoCat · 22-25, M
Depends on what you want
If you cut them off are you okay with not knowing why they do what they do? If not then maybe you should confront them
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@TacoCat I'm not really curious why... I have an idea that it's cause I'm not loud and talkative enough

But at the same time why do they want me around now
HifromJim · M
Just move on, there is a saying whilst they're talking about you, they're leaving someone else alone.
SW-User
Tell them to go to hell
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User I don't wanna make enemies that's my problem ☹️
SW-User
@RaemaSnr ignore them completely then. They can say what they want. It isn't gonna matter years from now
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User I guess you're right, thanks
Allelse · 36-40, M
Get rid of them and make new friends.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Allelse I'm gonna try my best to

 
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