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How many chances do you give someone?

Anywhere between three and twenty-seven. Something recently happened. I honestly hated this person. Talked a lot of shit about them. Now we're making an effort to be friends again. And it's going well. Am I stupid?? Someone who's hurt me, who I've hurt...and I'm giving them another chance...after all the shit-talking I've done?
One chance. I am pretty clear in what I will tolerate and what I won't. I have a few close friends. I prefer it that way. They know me well. You learn, as you get older, to surround yourself with genuine, caring friends.
Beebo · M
I don't think there is a limit as in how many times. There is a limit to how much you can take. If someone keeps failing you, eventually you'll give up.
Most people get one period. If I like them 1.5, if I love you, maybe 3. FOH if you mess up after that, regardless of who you are.
SW-User
Very noble of you, hope its equally mutual and everything works out! 😊
SW-User
[c=#BF0080]It depends on what they do that leads me to needing to give them a chance. [/c]
CheesePickle · 41-45, C
Sounds like you are both giving each other a chance which is good.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Dont think theres a limit. I liked them to redeem themselves somehow
SW-User
None. If I like them, then only one.
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