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Zonuss · 41-45, M
Im a problem solver.
I believe it's a waste of time to complain especially if you have the power to change your situation.

ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
Depends on the subject.

Sometimes I’m looking for advice, other times I’m just blowing off steam
Most times though, it’s pretty clear to the listener, what I’m looking for from them 😊
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
Just a listener. I usually don't even talk about my problems unless I already have a solution, or there just isn't one and I have to accept it.
@AlchemyFox
I can relate to this.
pentacorn · F
mostly i vent to myself and listen for solutions. rarely i vent to someone, but when i do it's really brainstorming so i'm also listening for solutions
JustNik · 51-55, F
Venting is hard. I really prefer to do most of it here where I can talk myself around to some kind of understanding or acceptance most efficiently. It’s not so much that I want an ear to listen, but the possibility someone might read it helps me keep my thoughts reasonably coherent. And I like the fact no one HAS to read it. I have great difficulty verbalizing what I feel is negative and generally feel bad if I do. When I’m just growling in frustration at immediate circumstances (can’t figure out how to make something work or such), I appreciate solutions offered calmly.
@JustNik
I understand this. I don’t like venting to people I know irl.
darknessprevails · 26-30, M
Both.. dont offer solutions though if youre not familiar with the topic or forcing it.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
nah... I just throw it out there, if anyone hears it then so be it.
Umile · 41-45, F
Pfuzylogic · M
I am looking for an answer.
I try to limit venting since I don’t like to express frustration.
Unusually just someone to listen. If i open up that means i really need it. I tend to act like I'm perfectly fine
I'm always hoping people will find solutions. I'm a despised communist. America needs its faults and hates me.
Recently, I've been leaning more towards solutions... but beggars can't be choosers...
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Just an ear, I don’t listen to peoples advice anyway. 😅
TheFragile · 46-50, M
Depending on who's listening, a little of both.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Just an ear and validation.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
It depends on the topic and my mood.
wackidywack · 22-25
Gimme the ear, it's what I need
Depends on the situation. But when I’m looking for suggestions for solving the problem, generally that’s what I’ll lead with ("someone, help !"). 😅
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Usually just someone to listen but if I want suggestions I will make that clear
empanadas · 31-35, M
Been trying to give you solutions. 😅 But I think I found out what's messing you up.
@empanadas
Bruh! I’m reading those solutions!!! 😠
That is sooo cute! 😩
MethDozer · M
I like a little salt with my pepper.
@MethDozer
Yea I think you do!!!

 
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