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SugarDoughnut · 22-25, M
Don't worry, I had the same thing happened to me too. In fact, my mom even forgot to give me a present. On Xmas Eve I overhead my parents talking and my dad asked whether she got a present for me. She said nope and if worse came to worse, she would just buy something the next day.

At the end I didn't get a present from her or my dad either.
Awww I'm sorry that is not okay especially from your parents

Yes. Time to start putting yourself first for once. I'm so sorry for your pain. That was terrible of them.
@DidIHurtYourFeelings: I quite understand. I've been through exactly that. You're right. It's not about the presents at all. It was the lack of thought behind them, yet actions speak louder than words. Through those gifts, or lack thereof, however, they let you know exactly what they thought of you. What small minded people. They don't even deserve a second thought, yet it does hurt. Next time you know where to get their gifts. At the Dollar Store, and I'm not kidding. You don't reward bad behavior.
@GraceFromEP: I don't think I will be buying them anything at all. I just don't understand why this is hurting my feelings so much
@DidIHurtYourFeelings: Simply because you're human with feelings, it is naturally hurtful, being overlooked or not included. Not buying them anything would be ideal!
Those type people aren't worth one tear. Don't dare let them know you're hurt. In fact, I'd send them a little thank you card. That would rain on their parade. Make it fun, darling.
Aww thank you for helping me smile
@DidIHurtYourFeelings: Just treasure your real friends who make you happy. Someone as sweet and thoughtful as you must have plenty. ❤ Today is a new day and a fresh start. Plan something fun. 🤗
1GHOST · M
Yep Grace is right ..time to stand up and be seen ! If you let it slide you will only confirm there treatment of you .
After all ...you are as valuable as any of them right !!?
Very true. Next year I won't be doing Christmas. Every year I cook for all of my husband's family and my own. We are a large family and I never ask for anything. I'm ready to stop being so giving and loving
1GHOST · M
Yep you need to take care of yourself too.
Screw 'em buy yourself a big gift and tell them " huh ....sorry I spent the money on me . I didn't think anyone would miss my contributions so.."

So ..what does your husband say ?
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
I am so sorry for you! And I can understand you so well because my situation is so similar to yours. Either I get/got "gifts" which are really hurting me or most of time I don't get nothing at all although I also put so much thoughts on other peoples gift. 😢
Yeah it's definitely the worst feeling ever
Moonwiddle · 46-50, F
Aw how rotten for you. My worst gift was the same. Some tiny free makeup samples you get when you buy two products. She even recycled the gift bag I'd given her for her birthday.
Moonwiddle · 46-50, F
@DidIHurtYourFeelings: I would of binned it in front of her. Or better still use it and fill the bottle with cheap crap and give it to her for her birthday
@Moonshine: that's so evil
Moonwiddle · 46-50, F
@DidIHurtYourFeelings: 😉

 
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