When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

Maya Angelou

The Trust thing? Yep, totally.....

The Drama and Toxic thing? No. I tend to say that to most people (granted, not in the first 5 minutes....maybe...10?!?) as I've had too many people in my life like that. I set my agenda. They act like drama queens or slag people off...and I'm gone.

Simple!

What about if someone tells you "the last thing I would want to do is hurt you" after you've known them for over 5 years Online and they do just that :(

Anybody who says that does not understand or honor the concept of trust, so it's entirely meaningless.

I hate nice people

This post reminds me of something I read years ago, I forget how it went?🤔Something like, "harm no one, trust few, and take nothing." I'm somewhat of a social butterfly and like most people....until they give me a reason not to.😎🦋✌️

Yep and it doesn't have to be within five minutes either. Projection is real.

I never trust anyone that says “trust me” period.

Then, to whom we should trust?

If someone says “No offence, but…..”. You know you’re about to be offended.

You learn all you need to know in the first 5 mins

Here's the best one. Ready?
"I don't want to fight with you".
--usually after a knock-down, drag out argument that sets off fire alarms.

Note to self!