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SteelHands · 61-69, M
An individual person can either be a part of the problem or not.
Pointing fingers at other people as the cause of problems that they aren't a party to shouldn't affect someone that isn't making problems.
Most people are just living their lives and don't have the energy or time to point fingers.
Pointing fingers at other people as the cause of problems that they aren't a party to shouldn't affect someone that isn't making problems.
Most people are just living their lives and don't have the energy or time to point fingers.
Is it common? Yes. Is it healthy? Not at all.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
I got a sibling who blames anyone she breaths near for her choices & then eventual circumstances. It’s more stressful because I’m keeping my exhaustion over her nonsense to myself for the most part. Only 9 more months to keep quiet 🤐
Sorry you are stressed 🌻
Sorry you are stressed 🌻
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SW-User
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit that’s terrible to hear unfortunately I have someone that causes me a lot of stress I have 2 ppl actually but 1 I thought I could count on but in fact it’s a complete opposite and I’m not sure what to do about it anymore
@SW-User Cut them out of your life. I'm not sure what they are doing to cause you stress, but if you don't need to deal with them, then don't. I had a lot of people in my life who I thought I could count on but when shitty drama-mongers came into my life, there wasn't anyone who stood up for me and everyone abandoned me.
The only way to remove stress is to remove the people causing it by getting away from them.
The only way to remove stress is to remove the people causing it by getting away from them.
SW-User
@CleverFunnyNameGoesHere yeah unfortunately I’ve had to cut ppl once close to me out of my life