@poisonouscupcake shame you can't apply some of the caring & selfless to yourself. Emotions can sometimes be overwhelming. All the best.

@nowic2 i’m getting there with my mental health but it’s a long journey🤗❤️

@poisonouscupcake unfortunately it usually is & a tough journey but don't give up. I hope you can live a life you love. 🙂

@sspec yes, even experiences mean nothing at the end. Yet what ever we do or don't do we can't avoid accumulating them.

@sspec agreed. Thankyou & wishing you wellness & happiness also. Regards

@BananaBrown laughing is good for the soul but if someone pisses you off, sounds like they'd better watch out.

@nowic2 It’s easier to let things go when someone hurts me, and much harder to move on when they hurt someone I love.

@BananaBrown yep, I get that.

@SW-User compassionate is very good. Athletic, useful. Perfectionist could work against low self esteem but at least both can be improved.

@nowic2 Thank you 😊

@Pinkstarburst from your posts I can see the kind & discerning. The loathing & pessimistic surprises me. It's weird how we often have conflicting characteristics. Maybe it's about balance??

@SW-User empathic & humble are endearing qualities. I suspect you have some very good friends. Sometimes temper can be a good way of relieving anger or frustration.

@Imsleepy you sound like a good friend. Any thoughts or desire to work on the bad?

I try my best to be a good friend, and yes the desire to work on the bad is there. I think the laziness stems from perpetual boredom that stems from me being indecisive. 😅
So I need to make my damn mind up and stick to any goal I may set. @nowic2

@Imsleepy yep, make up your damn mind, stick to the action & see it though, damn it. It will get easier with practice. All the best. 🙂

@tallpowerhouseblonde the good are good. I'll be wary of the bad, they support each other.