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DecepitconsDarkObsession · 41-45, F
@SweetMae So if someone is a convicted sex offender and went to jail and did his time and did therapy and got the help he needed. And hasn't done anything in well over 17 years, are you still mad at him? What if this 'sex offender' was a victim originally. And then turned around do due the same thing to someone else, because they thought it was right, because that's what they were taught. Does you anger still apply? Im just curious.
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
My third grade teacher for humiliating me in front of the whole class, many times, and turning most of my class against me. Another person, who won't be named, for meddling in something that was none of their business and making an already difficult situation much worse. I think I've forgiven that teacher, because none of those kids matter to me anymore. I've hardly thought of them in years.
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TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
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rckt148 · 61-69, M
@TeresaRudolph71 I went through a similar situation
My Grandma was dying and I watched her slowly slip away but she and I talked a lot ,and she never talked down to me like a little kid ,she wanted me to be smart and ready for the day she was no longer around ,,
When my 2nd grade teacher asked questions ,,I would wait to see if anyone else responded and if no one did I would raise my hand ,when the teacher called on me I always began everything with "Grandma Said "
Soon every time I raised my hand the kids would start chanting "Grandma said Grandma said "
I liked a girl in my class and her Mom let her wear perfume
She liked me too ,so playing a game called hide the bone she put her eraser in my desk (you kept your eyes closed and guessed who gave you the eraser ) I smelled her perfume
When I said Kelly ,he stops me and tells the story of the little boy who cried wolf ,,and tells me I cheated ,,take my seat
After that everything I said was met with "Grandma said or Wolf Wolf Wolf " thats what made me shy
It was hard enough getting beat at home ,dealing with bullies to get to and from school ,,,this was the icing on the cake .
When friends from school see me now ,and see how vocal I am they are blown away ,,but they have no clue what I went through to overcome my life ,,,I would hurt one of them today for mocking me ,,,they made me join the service at 17
I could not wait to go away and be trained ,,and come back and kick their butts ,,,the night I came home from boot camp
20 boys pushed to far ,,they found out I was not that scared little boy anymore
I was a well trained member of the US Coast Guard
Fear was not an option
Now I give those people credit ,,they made me who I am
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My Grandma was dying and I watched her slowly slip away but she and I talked a lot ,and she never talked down to me like a little kid ,she wanted me to be smart and ready for the day she was no longer around ,,
When my 2nd grade teacher asked questions ,,I would wait to see if anyone else responded and if no one did I would raise my hand ,when the teacher called on me I always began everything with "Grandma Said "
Soon every time I raised my hand the kids would start chanting "Grandma said Grandma said "
I liked a girl in my class and her Mom let her wear perfume
She liked me too ,so playing a game called hide the bone she put her eraser in my desk (you kept your eyes closed and guessed who gave you the eraser ) I smelled her perfume
When I said Kelly ,he stops me and tells the story of the little boy who cried wolf ,,and tells me I cheated ,,take my seat
After that everything I said was met with "Grandma said or Wolf Wolf Wolf " thats what made me shy
It was hard enough getting beat at home ,dealing with bullies to get to and from school ,,,this was the icing on the cake .
When friends from school see me now ,and see how vocal I am they are blown away ,,but they have no clue what I went through to overcome my life ,,,I would hurt one of them today for mocking me ,,,they made me join the service at 17
I could not wait to go away and be trained ,,and come back and kick their butts ,,,the night I came home from boot camp
20 boys pushed to far ,,they found out I was not that scared little boy anymore
I was a well trained member of the US Coast Guard
Fear was not an option
Now I give those people credit ,,they made me who I am
an overcomer
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@MsAnnThropy despise is simply feeling a repugnance for something. It doesn't affect you personally like hate does
Thingschange4444 · 56-60, M
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rckt148 · 61-69, M
Beating me as a child ,betrayal after knowing about my past ,
molestation ,keeping me from people I loved ,
Lies that caused me to have to endure physical pain ,giving me a vaccine that eats my spine ,has robbed my life and caused me extreme physical pain ,and then they denied it
Take your pick ,,,
But I have learned ,when I hate ,,I keep hurting me ,not them
and the bitterness bleeds over into everything else ruining the now too
Past is gone ,cant change it
I can overcome it ,and show I am to legit to quit
none of them are concerned about me ,,I was the only one still giving them power
I took it back ,,I forgive them and moved on
molestation ,keeping me from people I loved ,
Lies that caused me to have to endure physical pain ,giving me a vaccine that eats my spine ,has robbed my life and caused me extreme physical pain ,and then they denied it
Take your pick ,,,
But I have learned ,when I hate ,,I keep hurting me ,not them
and the bitterness bleeds over into everything else ruining the now too
Past is gone ,cant change it
I can overcome it ,and show I am to legit to quit
none of them are concerned about me ,,I was the only one still giving them power
I took it back ,,I forgive them and moved on
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I didn’t hate them right away. They were bullying me. @Spoiledbrat
DecepitconsDarkObsession · 41-45, F
I don't think I've hated anyone in awhile but I am annoyed with a few people. The last person I hated was a love hate relationship. My ex I hated because he beat me up everyday if I didn't have at least $30 by 9pm. And I didn't have a job, and I was 8 months pregnant. My feet were swollen, and I was a mess. Ill never forgive him for treating me with such disrespect. I can't forgive for some of the others things, because he obviously was going through something from his past and he didn't know how to deal with it. And I prob didn't make things easier.
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Keepitdown · F
Betrayal over many years.
bijouxbroussard · F