You know this looked stupid to me first but then thinking about it i actually think something similar

like opening up and trusting a guy your in a relationship with..why on earth do that since most relationships end? and seeing how people treat each other after a break up yeahh not a good idea to tell them the most personal things

I do trust him!

"You hear that Wilson, I'm not supposed to trust you buddy.........Wilson?.....Wilson???!!!!.........WIIIIIIILLLLLLSOOOOOOOOONNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!"

First off, I disagree with your basic premise. Soul mates are not pre-existing, or met, they are nurtured and molded over the years.