Are you resilient?

Well, not me... At least not enough. I take too long to recover from setbacks and painful experiences. It is the only character trait I wanna change about myself.

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WildHeart · 41-45, F

Sounds familiar. I take all the time I need to recover but when I find myself again there is no reminiscing or going back. I like to let myself heal and learn at the same time.

LunaInvicta

Yes! Learning is the benefit of it!

Swoop62 · M

I do not like myself when I am down so I try to find away to make it better, may not get to good but at least better.

LunaInvicta

Yeah. Make the best of everything.

Swoop62 · M

@LunaInvicta: Sometimes easier said than done but better than just accepting the way it is.

Bean17 · 46-50, F

What is "too long"? I suppose I am resilient due to the sheer fact that I'm still here!😜 And so are you!!

LunaInvicta

Nice, I like that take. :) Well, I define "too long" when months after bad shit happened I still can't let go of it.

Bean17 · 46-50, F

Yeah some things take longer than others. Some things take a lifetime and it's still not enough.😳 Go easy on yourself--you're just a human bean too!😜

SW-User

I'm not made out of wood, but yes to a point. I think it's something that life does to us. Give it time...

LunaInvicta

I will, thank you. :)

MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F

Yes, I am.

LunaInvicta

Cool. Did you have to "learn" it or has it been like that all your life?

MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F

@LunaInvicta: With the issues I had, it was either become resilient, or be miserable.

LunaInvicta

@MrsKatherineArch: Decision between the two options...

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