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I Want to Clear Out the Clutter In My Home

In my case, my home is one small rented room.

When I moved to this area months ago, I moved out of a one bedroom apartment of 28 years to a whole new community 70 miles away where I now live.

I was sick and under a lot of stress at the time, undergoing eye surgeries, tooth extractions and transportation problems (no car or drivers license), fighting delirium hallucinations caused by high fevers...packing up my extremely cluttered apartment with great difficulty and no help at all.

I tried to sort out my mountain of stuff as ruthlessly as I could. But at that time I imagined moving into an apartment of about the same size as my old apartment.

I foolishly believed that the housing shortage I read about in the newspaper would not seriously affect me because I was moving to a location in the desert where housing has traditionally been much cheaper.

But the housing shortage is nationwide. Banks are lending money to build fancy shopping malls and office buildings but not for low income apartments or for middle class private homes. People everywhere are doubling up with relatives or living in formerly abandoned houses or moving into RVs and campers. The few apartments that are available are for rich people.

I had to put my stuff into storage (expensive!) and move in with a friend. By that time my illnesses (a series of antibiotic resistent infections) had gotten worse. My kind friend nursed me although she had a job and a long commute. She is truly a special person. During the day when she was at work, her sweet natured bulldog kept me feeling safe in spite of physical weakness and hallucinations.

A few months later, I was much better and I managed to finally regain my drivers license and get a a car on credit.

That's when I found out that there were NO apartments available.

I was desperately in need of a place to live. So...I rented my one small room in a private home and now I have 5 roommates. I share the bathroom with two guys. I share the kitchen with my 5 roommates.

Now it's time to get my stuff out of storage and sort it out. It's clear I will need to get rid of most of it. I have already taken the first half out and am spending most of each day sorting and throwing stuff away or giving it away.

I have until the end of the month, November 2016, to get the rest out of my storage unit; I can no longer afford to keep it there.

My health improved somewhat this summer. I went swimming nearly every day and was on a healthy diet. But I am still seeing a doctor about a few health issues that have so far resisted treatment. And I still tire easily
So It's a tough job for me. I'm sorting through 2-3 boxes a day.

Anyone else in a war with clutter? Anyone else out there radically downsizing? Any stories or tips would be greatly appreciated.
Picklebobble · 56-60, M
I've had to do something similar.
Go from a 2 bed flat to my mothers little bungalow.
Broke my heart having to dump so much of what made that place, my home.
However, you do what you need to do in order to get you to the next stage.
And if that means you have to reduce and downsize. That's what you have to do.
The most important thing as far as you're concerned is getting your health back.
If you are now in a safe place. Concentrate on getting well. Everything else is gravy, as they say !!
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Thanks for your encouraging words. And for understanding how heartbreaking it can be getting rid of sentimental and treasured items. I'm coping. But some days it's difficult to keep sorting and dumping.
Peaches · F
@greenmountaingal: I can relate and feel your pain! 😢
Peaches · F
I remember responding to your first story about how no one would help you, you've been through so much! Yes, I need to have a garage sell as we down sized too when we moved. I have given lots of stuff away already. Less is best! I can't believe the housing situation, I sure hope it gets more affordable and SOON!!! Bless you, hope things improve for you. 🍀
Finerthings · 56-60, M
I'm very much a minimalist. I love clean uncluttered living. Probably because I grew up with a hoarder.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Wow. That would do it!
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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
You're right about malls going broke although they are still constructing mini malls out here. Also, the banks are only part of the problem. I've heard they won't give illegal immigrants home loans so these families are filling the low rent and middle class apartments driving the rents up. In any case, it is no longer possible to find an apartment if you are not in the upper income brackets. Three families I know have had their apartment rents [i]doubled[/i], two families in this area, one in Portland, Oregon, forcing them to move in with relatives, live in an abandoned building and move into a truck camper respectively. Lots of people are renting a room in a private home as I'm doing.

Glad you are dealing with your clutter and excess stuff. It's a good feeling to get control of the useless stuff that obstructs your life. The hardest part is getting rid of sentimental stuff or stuff with good memories attached to it.
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