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I Hate When People Judge Teen Moms

You don't know the circumstances around them getting pregnant or culture they live in. Don't judge a woman who chooses to stand up to her responsibility instead of taking easy way our.
StarLily · 51-55, F
Sadly, and ironically, a lot of the people who judge a teen mom are the same ones that would also judge her for taking what you call 'the easy way out'... judgmental people just need something to criticize, makes them feel better about the ugliness and fear in their own hearts.
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
True
DarkenedSoul · 22-25, F
Honestly when it comes to that . . I really don't think young girls 15 or 16 years old should even be opening their legs . You barely can take care of yourself ( speaking in general ) I font think people well most people who you say judge is basically saying your so young why the hell were your legs open . At the end of the day . Your actions have consequences Hun
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
Yes and teen mom's accepted those consquences but going to far one night also happens
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
So does rape
All moms are prizes ... the world knows nothing more priceless than mothers that care and raise children.

There is no right way to be a mom.

But, every mom has a right to be proud
AlmightyLoad · 26-30
people judge everything no one is free from judgement
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
And didn't say it wasn't our fault.
AlmightyLoad · 26-30
Ah yeah Life is funny like that sometimes
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
@WaterSpirit: see your blaming me for believing in life at conception but I bet you be first to say her body her choice
My sister in law got pregnant when she was 14. I know it was really hard on her. I have always felt that she paid a kind of price for that. She hadn't finished school and was in no position to take care of the baby ...and didn't stay with the father. Nobody wants to be an asshole. I don't and I've never treated her any different than I would anyone else. I am just saying it had to be hard.
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
It is hard being a teen mom even though I have family and the dads support. People in my community don't judge me as much as others cause teen pregnancy is common
@sassygirl15: My sister in law was hard on her daughter. I think she resented her. She would sometimes tell her that she wasn't very pretty and (when she was a teenager) insinuate that she ...was loose which I think was how she felt about herself. She didn't keep a close eye on her. She just wasn't ready to have and to love and to raise a child. It is a very rewarding experience but also debilitating to someone with little resources.
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
@lovelldo: yes it is. I have 2 adopted brothers both from teen moms

 
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