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I have a p*rvy client who has to comment on my body anytime I visit his premises, what is the best action to take?

His comments are not explicit, his business sells women beauty products, he usually makes the comments in this context when he is talking to me about the products, but I am pretty sure he is a pervy person.
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
I would imagine the whole "selling women beauty products" business draws a lot of the pervier mans inward.
I was thinking the same thing lol
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
Like they're trying to change their appearance anyway, lots of opportunities to say sort of negative things about them to chip away at their self-image... *shudders*
SW-User
Mention the plans you and your boyfriend/husband have later.
You know, something like this has never occurred to me, I usually think of aggressive actions lol
SW-User
@SheWhoUsedToBeAnotherMember: It works! I've done it. Just keep talking about how great he is and how in love you are.
SW-User
Mention your hobby is collecting penises and show him some fake ones floating in a jar.
OMG, there is an idea! 🤔😂😈
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Do your business elsewhere.
It is not up to me, I am assigned this client I can't just decline clients without a reasonable justification, and this isn't one, it is not like he assaulted me or something.. Yeah I probably have the right to raise my concerns to my employer, but I am not sure I want that kind of headache out of it and frankly I never declined a job I was assigned.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SheWhoUsedToBeAnotherMember: I guess he knows what he can get by with if no one straightens him out then. I worked with a guy like that, he had been written up and moved to a different area for verbal sexual harassment and he was really careful to only hint at things without crossing the boundary far enough to get written up.
@cherokeepatti: No worries, I will straighten him out if required ;)
beautyisnature · 31-35, F
What kind of work do you do? I'm a Social Worker and I would 100% call him out on talking that way to me. That's not cool, I feel it is not anyone's job to talk about our bodies, especially our clients lol Hope you can work this out!
Professional services. You know, the way he comments makes it difficult to call him out on it, because he brings up such comments in the context of what he is explaining to me, but the way he seems like drooling with his looks and the way he talks is what makes him sound so pervy and it is difficult to call him out on this too.
McNaughty · 31-35, F
If it were me, I'd give him my most sincere smile... what other action is needed. Be thankful that he (and I'm sure others) find you attractive. If he puts his hand on you, slap him silly.
I am always thankful for sincere compliments even those received from men, but these are not sincere at all.
SW-User
Stare straight into his eyes and don't smile. Give him the look of "I will cut your head into ten pieces with a dull axe".
...and I actually do have that kind of look, sometimes it even slips from me without noticing and it scares people off 😂
SW-User
@SheWhoUsedToBeAnotherMember: keep giving it to him
He probably is a perv. Men are pigs.
@SheWhoUsedToBeAnotherMember: well basically men are pigs, I am not in their category. I treat women with respect. I always have I would never be so forward with them, I do not play the games men do.
@feathers11: Thank you for being a respectful man, I hope I will stumble into someone like you :)
That is my hope for you that you will meet a man that is worthy of you. He would treat you as a lady with respect and honor. @SheWhoUsedToBeAnotherMember:
Find out what he is scared of. Pervs have phobias.
He better exercises his phobias away from me.
Exmemper · 51-55, M
It's really simple go buy from another outlet and don't go to his store and let all your friends know what he is like as why put money in his pocket if he makes you feel Un easy
I am not buying from him, I am providing services and I am not a freelance, the decision is not mine.
Exmemper · 51-55, M
What service are you providing and he is not your employer is he
Exmemper · 51-55, M
Grab his balls and pull down and tell him it's not going to be pleasure for him but you are sick of his comets and now it's your turn to have fun at his expense

 
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