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What emotion is directly the cause of self harm ?

Poll - Total Votes: 9
Hatred of oneself.
Anger towards self.
Sadness (emotional pain that makes them seek physical pain.)
Or other, please comment below.
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Cinderella · 46-50, F
Feeling nothing! The need to feel something
From what my nephew told me I believe it to be a crisis point. He said the pain that comes from self harm takes the mind off the deep emotional turmoil. So it might prevent suicide in some people. This might not be the case for everyone that harms but it it what I gathered from talking to him.
Pureblossom · 22-25, F
That's an interesting way to look at it .
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
It's a release of pain and tension
Feansajoditru. An emotional composite.
Pureblossom · 22-25, F
According to the dictionary and google ' Feansajoditru ' is not a word .Too bad it looks like it would make a good interesting word 😄.
@Pureblossom: I hereby declare it a word! So let it be written-so let it be done!
SW-User
I used to punch stuff around me every time i got angry in my teens..
I do it because it feels nice.
Pureblossom · 22-25, F
How does it feel nice emotionally ? Cause physically it's bound to hurt .
The initial wound pinches yes, but if the blade is sharp enough it cuts through quite easily, like a scalpel would not hurt as much as a knife. I find the release of blood to be rather interesting and I find my concentration goes up afterwards, perhaps as a result of a traumatic event.

I have not experienced a life threatening cut however, that may be a lot different, but it would be interesting to test if there was a way to do it safely. Chop an arm off with an axe and have a surgical team sew it back on right away or something.

I read that death from loss of blood is painless, aside from the wound damage of course.

Hurting myself doesn't affect me emotionally, and I don't hurt myself when I am upset either, which also invalidates the above comments I suppose.
Pureblossom · 22-25, F
Thank you for your answers , but please get help .
meJess · F
frustration
meJess · F
self harming never helps, unless it gets attention for whatever the problem is
Pureblossom · 22-25, F
@meJess: I know but if a person keeps doing it , they must feel it helps then in some form or way .
meJess · F
not sure if it distracts or draws attention, I think it's one of those things you do when you really don't know what to do
It could be a chemical imbalance.
Pureblossom · 22-25, F
I didn't realise that makes a person act in precise ways I thought maybe the imbalance might change a persons mood a little bit , but not necessarily trigger a person to that extant .
I think I read that somewhere but that's not to say that I think that everyone who self harms has a chemical imbalance. I am sure there are many reasons why people do it.
Pureblossom · 22-25, F
I can't imagine anyone ever truly hating themselves , could it be because they can't forgive themselves for something which happened ?
@Pureblossom: I live with it each day
Pureblossom · 22-25, F
What caused it ?

 
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