I tend to move my offline relationships to online…if they’re going really well. Then after six weeks I ask them to marry.
Not me necessarily, but someone online

I don’t think it’s a moral responsibility, I don’t think anyone sees that as that. More like a common desire to extend the relationship to the “real world” , and obviously have physical intimacy.


But it’s an interesting question. I don’t think all online relationships need to go that route, it really depends on the couple and what they think it’s best for them. I knew someone who had a 10 year fully online relationship with someone that eventually came to an end. I could never do that.

There are no rules. You just have to start a relationship with someone who is on the same page as you.

Personally, I will never act like there's higher emotional investment from my part than there is before I actually meet them ever again because it would only be based on a fantasy. At this point I only want to bond with a real, full person with a body and personality that I can observe in real life situations, not my illusion of someone I based on parts they decided to show online.

There are LOTS of men that are very much on this page, they never want to meet. Usually because they’re married or attached in someway. Their only interest is online.

They can remain online, all depends on what the two parties find mutually beneficial. But I get what you mean in the sense of feeling a need to “legitimize” the relationship as many are of the opinion that online relationships aren’t real unless you actually meet in person.

Online just woundnt be enough for me personally.
Not be able to smell them, touch them.....nup, couldn't do it.🤷‍♀